Monday, August 10, 2009

10 Day Waiting Period Officially Over!

This past Friday market the 10th day in our mandatory 10 day waiting period. This means that as of today we COULD receive our Final Ruling and be invited to Taiwan to get Lauren. Holy Cow! I am VERY excited to get final ruling and go get our girl. I am also FREAKING out at all that I need to accomplish. Here are some of the highlights that woke me up at 4:30 this morning:

I think I need to get a diaper bag . I usually do not carry a traditional diaper bags and can usually make a larger pocketbook or tote function as a diaper bag. But...I am going to Taiwan, I will be doing LOTS of site seeing with Lauren and traveling for an entire day on an airplane with a baby I do not know yet. How many different outfits will I need to have on hand? Diapers? Toys? Do I need a big diaper bag?

Will the Moby baby carrier/wrap work for me? IF so what color should I get. I like the black because it will go with everything but then again I really like the lavender color, but lavender does not look good with my red hair. The brown is nice too. Definitely not the blue:)

Where do I find the locket I want to get Lauren's birth mother? I looked at many of them on line this morning (5:00am) Can I get a silver one or will that be considered not nice enough? I am trying to go with the sentiment of the gift. They have it in white gold too, but will that be considered too much? How do I get a picture of Lauren in there?

All the other gifts I need to buy for our trip...Should I bring gift bags or gift wrap and ribbon? Will sand dollars/star fish survive the trip? Do people like salt water taffy? (very beachy gift) What kind of Lobster themed gift could I do?

Where and when can I get a pretty little dress for Lauren to wear on Gotcha day. I think I need more hair clips. I want to get some of those cute head bands with big flowers that clip on. Where do I buy these so they look nice and not cheesy. Maybe I should ask Hannah Claire's mom this....she has the best hair accessories.

Then there is all the August back to school stuff:

Matt's birthday party- When should we do it, what kind of party, how big, what if I have to travel and Phil has to manage the whole sha-bang. When do I need to get the invites out by. Do not forget about the gift bags.

Back to school shopping- Does everyone need a new backpack? Where the heck did I put those supply lists the boys brought home from school in June and what exactly has to go in the "me" bag that Josh needs to bring in the 1st day of school.

Fall sports: Does Josh need new baseball shoes? Should I be getting Matt the travel soccer backpack and jacket that I see all the kids sporting. I am not sure if it is necessary but I don't want him to be the only one not sporting the town gear. Are all the parents still doing this? I know things have changed with the economy.

So those are my biggies for today. If you have any advice or opinions on any of the above mentioned please feel free to comment or e-mail me with suggestions. I need some help here people.

Ok- just breath....

9 comments:

  1. BREATHE is a great word! Wow! I so remember being where you are and CAN"T wait to be there again!

    hugs
    Blessings,
    Tami
    PRAYING JEREMIAH HOME QUICKLY
    www.tillGodbringsthemhome.blogspot.com

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  2. Robin,
    Here's hoping for a quick final and travel call for you! Who knows, perhaps we will travel at the same time. There is so much to think about it can be a little overwhelming! Lauren is such a sweetheart you must be so very excited!
    Sue & Mike

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  3. I so know how you feel! Ahhhh... is the only way I can express it right now! I am so not ready right now ( his room is not even close to being ready! it is still my computer room) and I go back to school in 2 weeks and 2 days! I gave my superintendent a letter that said we expect to travel sometime in septemebr or early October... all I keep thinking is not to make me look like a liar! Now I AM FREAKING OUT!
    Jami

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  4. wow Robin you did have a sleepless night. I brought the Vera Bradley diaper bag with me and it is working great for us. I kkep my wallet and all baby things in it. I would recommend the playtex disposal bottles and a small thermos. Our agency taks us to the baby store by TWCA and we bought the stackers which are a life saver for traveling with the formula.(They mix rice cereal and formula together here). As far as clothes bring 2 outfits per day plus her sleepers and that should be pleanty.. Everything else falls into place...oh it issooooooso hot(humid) here. Pick my brain when we get home. I just worry about the flight home because Paige loves to crawl around. The other stuff will fall into place.
    Talk to ya soon. I Hope you get your final ruling soon.
    Lisa

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  5. Hi Robin-
    Okay, breathe again. I checked out the Moby - you may also like the BabyHawk Mei Tai carrier and I loved my Beco and love my ergo - I wonder if the "wrapping" of the Moby might get complicated? The Beco is great for new baby wearers, because it is so easy to get on and off. The ergo seems to support heft better, but not as easy to get baby on and off by yourself til you practice.
    Did you check out BriarClair hair clips? I thought they were super cute. And don't forget HannaAndersson for girls clothes - comfy and soft!
    I would give Phil the whole "boy" list!
    We'll talk soon!
    Heather

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  6. You crack me up! I'm working on e-mailing you back right now. :)

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  7. Oh Robin, you must just breathe! It will come together, take one thing at a time.
    I would definitly get a diaper bag, it's just easier. And I second Lisa's disposable bottles and thermos...life saver in China.
    And I've heard that "gold" gold is prefered in Taiwan.
    Also there are plenty of stores over there, so if you forget something, or find you need something I am sure it will be easy to get.
    I'm hoping you get that Final really soon!!
    Jennifer

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  8. Robin, it'll all work out, I PROMISE!!!! One thing I would say is, don't bother with the pretty dress for Gotcha Day, they will have them dressed and ready to go for you. In our case, Brady was in an outfit we had sent in one of his care packages, so that was nice for us to see.

    Someone above mentioned the stackable formula containers...they are a MUST!!!! Samantha will know what you want, just ask her when she takes you to the baby store.

    You'll definitely want to bring at least one long sleeved sleeper for the plane ride home and don't forget to have a few changes of clothes available (for you and Lauren) on the plane in case of "emergencies" or "accidents".

    If I can help any more, please don't hesitate to send me an email!!!

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  9. Hello cousin! Just wanted to say Hi and that I think the silver locket would be a nice and sentimental touch. Phil's cousin from Maine, Sherry

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